My Divorce Path — Week 3 Worksheet | Next Chapter Concierge

Divorce & Starting Over · Week 3, Lesson 1

My Divorce Path

A decision tree to identify the right divorce process for your situation

Name:

Date:

Part 1: The Decision Tree

Answer each question honestly. Your answers will point you toward the most appropriate divorce process.

Question 1

Do you and your spouse agree on all major issues (property, finances, custody)?

Yes, we agree on everything → Uncontested divorce is likely your path

We agree on most things, but need help with a few issues → Continue to Q2

No, we disagree on major issues → Continue to Q3

Question 2

Are both of you willing to work together cooperatively (without court involvement)?

Yes, we can communicate respectfully → Mediation is a strong fit

We want professional guidance but not court → Collaborative divorce fits well

Communication is very difficult → Continue to Q3

Question 3

Is there a history of domestic violence, hidden assets, or significant power imbalance?

Yes → Contested/litigation may be necessary. Prioritize your safety and legal protection.

No, but we simply can't agree → Contested divorce with attorneys

Not sure — I need to investigate first → Note red flags below and consult an attorney

Part 2: My Recommended Path

Based on my answers, I believe the best process for my situation is:

My reason for choosing this path:

Part 3: My Budget Reality

Be honest about what you can realistically afford.

💰 Money I Have Available

Savings I can use for legal fees:

Monthly budget for attorney costs:

📋 Key Contested Issues

List your biggest unresolved issues:

Part 4: My First 3 Steps

Notes & Reflections